What is cording? Visualize it as an energetic string that lets emotions pass in both directions. Since energy is directed through thought and emotion, you usually get a “hit” through the cord when the person is thinking or “feeling” about you. Maybe they’re about to call you, wondering if you’d like to do something together […]
Surviving Your Partner’s Betrayal
Try the following to work through the devastation of partner betrayal. Explore your own reactions with curiosity and compassion. Seek out adaptive ways to communicate with your partner. If your goal is to heal and move forward together, you wlll need to adopt certain steps and avoid others in order to resolve the issue. Avoid […]
Harness Your Power Through Your Choice of Words
You can consciously choose how you use your words whenever you open your mouth. In this era of continuous texting and plethora of social media, face-to-face communication is becoming infrequent so it’s easy to be misunderstood. Indeed, it is mandatory that we all re-read our communications before hitting the send button. Try to read them […]
How Women Can Better Relate with Their Male Partners
My 41-year-old client “Tamara”, an attractive single mom and entrepreneur, related this all-too-familiar story, “Doug was bright, funny and successful! His body felt like it fit mine perfectly but he was still involved with his ex-wife. It felt like she was joined to him at the hip. I figured that I could just wait her out. […]
How to Rise Above “River Reed” Thinking
The trick they discovered about elephants is to train them from infancy to carrying heavy loads. First, they tie a thick rope around the a baby elephant’s leg and stake it in the ground to tether the animal. While the elephant struggles and pulls to free itself, the rope and stake are strong enough to […]
The Modern Male Guide To Overcoming Heartache
A Different Kind Of Male Survival Guide Well, women usually find their BFF, cry it out, talk it out, decide why you’re better off, plot revenge, scrap the idea as being too much effort, then put on a little black dress and go clubbing to celebrate single again. However, you’re not a woman! Dealing with […]
Authentic Relating (AR) Practices
Are you ready to connect deeply with others, to share, feel and be accepted for who you are in your life? If so, Authentic Relating is definitely for you What is Authentic Relating (AR)? AR is a set of Principles and Practices designed to cultivate trustable, empowering and nourishing connections and relationships with everyone in […]
Libido Boosters For Sexually Challenged Women
In truth, relationship issues or emotional/psychological reasons can impact the joyful expression of a woman’s sexuality. Yes, some female newlyweds are still very much attracted to their male partners but rarely get in the mood to engage in mutually enjoyable sexual encounters. Few such women feel butterflies in their bellies, those horny, wiggly sensations, highlighting […]