Clients have often asked me if I had a list of sex things to try out during the pandemic and self-isolation with a partner. With so much time together and stress to burn off, having an activities list to check off as a Hell Yes or Absolutely Not is the ideal starting point!
Sexual communication is a highly under-rated skill. Indeed, it’s wise to have sex-related conversations when the pressure is off. Bringing up the topic when you are on a walk or over the breakfast table. Bringing up sex while you are about to have sex is perhaps the worst place to get the response you were hoping for. Send you partner this list. Or do the online list at Mojo Upgrade that will send your partner your answers. If you are struggling to find a way to communicate sexually with your partner you may benefit with a few sessions of online therapy to set up the ground rules. Even two sessions can make a world of difference.
Activities List (alphabetical order)
Write a yes, no or maybe beside each activity.?
1. Anal Sex
2. Anal Play
3. Attend a Sex Party
4. Bath Together
5. Bondage
6. Blindfolded Sex
7. Breast Play
8. Costumes
9. Cyber Sex
10. Delaying Gratification
11. Dirty Sex Talk
12. Domination & Submission
13. Dry Humping
14. Erotic Massage
15. Erotic Food Play
16. Erotica – Watching
17. Erotica – Reading
18. Erotica – Writing
19. Exhibitionism
20. Fantasy Play
21. Fun with Fetishes
22. Going Commando
23. Go Parking
24. Go Skinny Dipping
25. Go to a Strip Club – As a Couple
26. Go to a Sex Club – As a Couple
27. Group Sex/Swinger’s Club
28. Hair Pulling
29. Have Loud Sex/Have Quiet Sex
30. Have Sex Three Times in One Day
31. Have Sex Every Day for One Month
32. Kissing
33. Kitchen Sex
34. Lap Dance – Give
35. Lap Dance – Receive
36. Licking Various Body Parts
37. Lingerie Shopping – As a Couple
38. Make Out Session – No Intercourse for at Least an Hour
39. Masturbation – Solo
40. Masturbation – Mutual
41. Middle-of-the-Night Sex
42. New Sex Locations
43. New Sex Positions
44. Office Sex
45. Oral Sex
46. Orgasm at the Same Time
47. Outdoor Sex
48. Phone Sex
49. Playful Restraint
50. Play Sex Games
51. Pornography – Watching
52. Pornography – Making your Own
53. Pose Naked for the Camera
54. Quickies
55. Role-Play
56. Rough Sex
57. Sensual Biting
58. Sexting
59. Sex Against a Wall
60. Shaving Each Other’s Genitals
61. Shop at a Sex Shop – Alone
62. Shop at a Sex Shop …As A Couple
63. Shower Sex
64. Skip Work to Have Sex
65. Slow, Sensual Sex
66. SM (Erotic Pain Play)
67. Spanking
68. Strip Tease
69. Tantric Sex
70. Thirty Minutes or More of Foreplay
71. Threesome
72. Trigger a Non-Genital Orgasm (It IS possible!)
73. Use Sex Toys – On Self
74. Use Sex Toys – On Partner
75. Voyeurism
As you consider ways to add variety to your sex life, know that you will achieve greater success and confidence via a series of small changes versus leaping right into radical sex. Take your time, explore and enjoy the journey!🌹