My 52-year-old client Muriel D., a chartered accounted, agreed to share her changing views on men:“Why do I love being with an extremely masculine man?
I love that he can command what he wants of me in bed.
I love that he possesses me.
I love that he claims every cell of my being.
I love that when my shadow reacts he reminds me he won’t put up with that.
I love that he isn’t easily convinced of anything and upholds his own truth above all else.
I love that he feels easy in his solitude and doesn’t need anyone.
I love that his authority reigns in our dynamic and that I am “owned” by him.
I love that I can so deeply submit to him yet feel superbly relaxed with him.
I have forever craved this bliss but was tainted by my ideal of the empowered woman, which made me reject any form of male authority.
Interestingly, I now feel more clear and supported in my sovereignty than ever before. Good things are manifesting at a much faster rate.
Such will be the energetics of your coming into your own truth with a supportive, secure man, too.
Some women tend to denigrate the innate nature of masculinity as they fear the male authority that stems from deeply insecure men, which is essentially fake power.
Yet, when male dominance is met with reverence and accepted by a nurturing woman who welcomes his instinctual nature, his true power comes to light.
Now I have always chosen to never become a victim nor be taken for granted. Indeed, I always hold the power to communicate, be discerning and know what feels right for me. Thus, I freely choose what I want to give and to whom and how open I want to be.
I know what an awesome human being I am, both as a woman and a free agent so I will never allow my radiance, orgasms, heart, creativity nor transmission to be taken for granted or abused. After all, if I never take myself for granted, then no one else ever can.
Thus, in this dynamic of deep feminine submission, you can also be in your dynamic power. From the outside it may seem that you are being dominated, but from the inside the truth is far different. You are giving myself over voluntarily because it serves you to delve so deep into yourself while it serves your male partner to be in service of your depth.
However, to reach this relationship euphoria, you must clear out your own illusionary stories on men and all of society’s entrenched lies you have been programmed to believe over the years.
Astonishingly, the list of negative beliefs that women today still hold around men is often a gross distortion of the truth. Yet, such women continue to not invest nor address this part of their psyches. It’s like they wish to continue to wallow in suffering at the hands of the patriarchy, clinging to damaging illusions, holding tight to the so-called ‘proof’ that men are always wrong in everything.
The awakening connections work set me on a trajectory of embracing the deep truths of my desires by laying bare all the falsehoods I had subscribed to and how those lies had formulated my ability to relate to the opposite sex,
What you lend consciousness to will formulate your reality, a fundamental truth any worthy spiritual philosophy. That consciousness is incredibly potent and therefore how it is used/channelled, determines what is created in the world.
Now awakening connections isn’t about being super masculine and feminine and producing the same outcome for all participants. The work actually supported me to filter out the lies and embrace my own truth, which was my desired personal outcome. It brought me clarity, permission and supported me in finding the most relaxing dynamics on relations. I finally had the tools to determine this for myself. This yearning for a polarized dynamic likely holds true for other women and men and how they deep down want to connect.
Awakening connections can help you dispel your illusions so that you have more clarity and can act from a place of self-trust and inner knowledge
This process is no magic elixir! Yet, pity all those women out there running the same sad falsehoods about men. Those stories that are continually energetically being regurgitated and proven as “true” only create the same negative outcomes.
Now is the time, women, to consciously manifest your dreams.
Quit complaining, whining or subscribing to those old, disempowering myths and pursue what you actually want.
You can only change your relationship paradigms if you consciously work to really rake in the rewards available through your intimate relationships with men.